Monday, February 6, 2012

Partners in Parenting

Get Busy or Slow Down - which is it?
Every once in a while, I just open up the book of Proverbs to read some of the amazing "pearls of wisdom" contained there.  Proverbs Chapter 6 warns of folly (or foolishness) in daily living.  Verse 6 asks the reader to consider the life of an ant and imitate it.  Ants are not busy this time of year due to the cold temperatures outside, but in the summer, they are constantly "on the go."  They never seem to rest or slow down.  So, is Solomon telling us in Proverbs to keep busy?  Actually, NO!  He is giving advice to the lazy man who wastes his time.  He is referring to laziness as folly or foolishness.  He is reminding the people that work is good for a person to do.  "Go to the ant, you sluggard; consider its ways and be wise!?  Proverbs 6:6

So lazy people (sluggards) should get busy working since it is wise to use God's gifts while you are here on earth.  HOWEVER, too much busyness in life will detract you and your home from time with God and His Word.  Busyness has become a part of our American fabric as far as I'm concerned.  I think some slowing down is important for most of us parents.  Running ourselves ragged is not helping our relationship with Christ.  Consider your life and the lives of your kids.  Do you need to get busy or slow down?  I bet you might benefit greatly by slowing down with life so you can get busy spending time with God and your family.  I know I can benefit from that!!



Family Discussion Points!

Are you generally busy or lazy?  Answer that individually and as a family.

Parents, listen carefully to how your kids answer.  It may be a "call out" to you.

Talk about what a night at home with no TV, radio, computer, video games, etc. might be like in your home.  Be daring - give it a try!

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