Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Partners in Parenting

“Take Your Vitamins!”

One of the morning jobs I have in my house is to get the vitamins out for the kids.  I set them on the counter so they can take them when they eat breakfast.  Now, I’ll admit that the one chewable vitamin tastes what I imagine chewing on a piece of sidewalk chalk would be like.  My kids don’t like that vitamin.  My wife won’t take it.  I only eat it because it is good for me, and I want the kids to eat theirs.  More days than not, it is almost bedtime, and those nasty tasting vitamins, all three of them, are still on the counter providing their nutrients for healthy living to absolutely nobody.  It kind of reminds me of sometimes how kids won’t eat healthy foods like broccoli because it doesn’t taste good.  I’m sure you have foods and vitamins your kids avoid too.  For them, avoidance of an unpleasant taste in their mouth is more of a goal than healthy living.  As a Christian parent, I have to remember that kids will avoid things they don’t like.  Where did they learn to do that?  Hmmm.

I guess I avoid things I don’t like most of the time too – no olives or coconut for me, please!  I avoid admitting my sinfulness.  I avoid taking time to read my Bible daily.  I avoid daily exercise.  I avoid driving the speed limit 100% of the time.  I avoid using good manners when I’m upset or frustrated.  I avoid all kinds of things that are good for me because it is unpleasant in the short term. 

As I think about it, I am reminded of how God’s laws and commandments leave a “bad taste in my mouth.”  The law is good for me, but I don’t want to live by it all the time. I want to do my own thing.  Thankfully, God’s grace is there to grant forgiveness when I don’t want to live under His good law.  His grace covers me, and you, and our kids!

“For sin shall not be your master, because you are not under law, but under grace.”  Romans 6:14

 

Family Discussion Points!

What are some things people in your family avoids eating?

What are some things your family avoids doing that are ultimately good for you?

Simply:  Law = you are sinful, but God’s grace = you are completely forgiven.  How should the law impact your life?  How should God’s grace?

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