Tuesday, October 27, 2015

Partners in Parenting 10/27/15


Partners in Parenting

“Parents – Rescue Your Kids NOW!”
At our conference last week, I was reminded that we need to rescue our kids right away.  There is not a moment to lose.  They are in need of help that only the adults in their life can give.  They MUST be rescued, and our keynote speaker, Tim Elmore, reminded us of many reasons that we need to take action.  We need to rescue them from laziness, narcissism, complacency, lack of creativity, poor interpersonal skills, and a host of others they have learned from…well…um…US.  Yes, us!  The adults in their lives have made it too easy for too long and many kids today are ill-prepared for the future.  He gave some great advice.  He said we should teach kids to:

Struggle and overcome
Wonder and solve a problem
Ask questions
Play outside without an electronic device
Serve someone else for a change
Think creatively
Deal with bored moments
Talk to people in person and on the phone
Take responsibility for their actions
Produce their entertainment instead of receive their entertainment
And many other things that ultimately rescue them from a very, very difficult future.
“…we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance, perseverance, character; and character, hope.”  Romans 5:3,4

Family Discussion Points!
Parents, are you rescuing your kids from future difficulties by allowing them to struggle now, OR are you making things easy on them now, hoping it will stay that way their whole life through?  (you may not like your answer, but that is OK!  We all struggle with it.)
Do your kids get too much screen time, and therefore, lack creativity to play on their own?
Kids, what would be 3 things you would do if you had to spend three hours outside without a phone or electronic device?  Do them and see if it was fun.  Were you creative in the time spent?

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