Monday, May 11, 2015

Partners in Parenting

“Surprise!  And you thought it was beef!”
Yesterday, we had some family members over to our house for Mother’s Day.  We cooked shish kabobs on the grill, and enjoyed a great day eating outside.  Just before eating, my son asked my sister-in-law if she liked venison or not.  She said, “No, I won’t eat that.” 
My wife immediately motioned for him to be quiet because (you probably guessed it) there was venison on those shish kabobs.  Sure, there was chicken, onions, mushrooms, and peppers on there too.  I felt a little bad for my sister-in-law being tricked by her own “flesh and blood” like this.  UNTIL…
Completely unsolicited, she suddenly said, “This beef is really good, Julian.  What did you marinate it in?”  I told her about the ingredients I used, and I let it go.  A few minutes later, she restated her opinion, “This beef is really good.  Don’t you think so, dad.”  Well, her dad decided to have some fun with her, and he asked what kind of beef she thought it was.  She said she didn’t know, but that “it tasted really good.  Is there some more?”  (That’s her 3rd proclamation of great tasting “beef”)  He laughed and said he thought it might be Black Angus beef since she probably hasn’t had that in a while. 
So, about that time, the whole family is pretty much stopping the “laughing on the inside” and starting to chuckle out loud.  Then, she turned to me and asked a question with a look of disgust on her face, “Julian, is that venison?”  Silence!
My brother-in-law spoke up with a great question:  “What does it matter if it’s venison?  You think it tastes great, right?”  Once again, silence!  In the end, we had a great time together as a family, and that is what really matters.
In John 21: 15 and following, Peter states his love for Jesus three times.  Not too many days earlier, Peter had denied even knowing Jesus three times.  Peter probably felt like a traitor, but Jesus makes him a very significant leader in the early church.  Surprise!

Family Discussion Points!
Have you ever been surprised by someone with a gift showing you their love?  How did it make you feel?  Share an example with your family.
Have you ever been tricked into doing something, eating something, etc. without knowing it?  Share with your family.

What surprises you most about what God??  Talk about something that is very surprising to you about God, but that you really like.  (example:  how the human body works and God created it that way)