Monday, February 25, 2013

Partners in Parenting


“Keeping the Flame going!”
Yesterday, Jen and the kids went to early church and confirmation class before driving up to her sister’s house for haircuts.  I went to Bible study and late church before heading home to spend an afternoon at home – just me and Zeke (chocolate lab) to do as we wished.  I made myself a list of things to get done:  laundry, new pads on the kitchen chairs, organize all my hunting stuff from last fall, organize fishing stuff for the coming season, marinade chicken for supper, sharpen my pocket knife, etc.  I did these things at a relaxed pace while watching the Daytona 500 with the TV volume turned way up.  I also started a fire in the fireplace.  It has been a long time since I had six hours free to do whatever I wanted.  Each task got completed and checked off the list, but one task never even made it onto the list.  It was a task that lasted longer than any other – in fact it lasted into the late evening.  The task of keeping the fire going in the fireplace needed regular attention.  A few times, I looked up from my work to find red coals without a flame.  I had to stir the coals, add wood, and blow on the coals – ah, a beautiful fire emerged again.
Later, when Jen got back home, she was talking to a friend on the phone.  She reminded her friend of a favorite Bible passage.  Here it is:  “For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands.  For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love, and of self-discipline.”  2 Timothy 1:6,7.  As Jen shared the verse with her friend, I was reminded of how, like tending the fire in the fireplace, we need to be “tending” our faith on a regular basis so we don’t lose it.  If I had ignored the fire, it would have extinguished.  If I ignore my gift of God (faith), it can be something I extinguish as I live life.  Notice, I would extinguish it, not God.  Tending to a fire and tending to our faith – something we need to be vigilant about as God’s people!!

Family Discussion Points!
Who builds fires in your family in the fireplace?  Camping?  Etc.
If you had 6 hours to do whatever you wanted, what would it be?  Each family member share!
How do you “tend” your gift of God (faith) on a regular basis?  Is there something to work on in your life as you consider this?

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